What Im Thinking....

I'm having some issues. I am so sick of people trying to be something or someone they are not. I also cannot stand when someone LIES to get attention. I mean seriously people do you have to make up some outrageous story to make your life look like a fairy tale. Money doesn't grow on trees ( at least I ha vent found the tree yet). I am not trying to say that I am jealous of someone Else's life because I'm not. I am perfectly happy with what i have and what I am able to do. Yes I would like to be able to do more and even have a little more but that will come with time. I just do not know how some people do it sometimes, you know the ones that throw money around like it grows on a tree in their back yard. The lying part is what hurts the most.
Anyways, I'm sure this is going to throw some people off but I just wanted to say what I was thinking.....

Be THANKFUL for your mother everyday

Last week has been a sad week. A co-worker and very good friend of mine called me Sunday a week ago to let me know that her mom was in the ICU on a ventilator and not doing well. I had just seen her mom the day before and granted she was sick and I could tell I never expected for that to be the last time that I speak to her or see her. Kaila (my friend and co-worker) was very close to her mother and loved her and talked to her everyday. Kaila is a only child so her mom was like her sister. After getting the phone call on Friday afternoon that her mom had passed away all I could do was cry. My heart hurt for Kaila and her family. Kaila's mom was only 47. Her mom was not a sickly person she passed away because she had a bad case of pneumonia and did not get it treated properly. So if you are like me, I called my mom and proceeded to tell her that if she even gets a cough she is going to the doctor. I DO NOT know or CANNOT even begin to imagine what it would be like not to have my mom around anymore. So therefore I will never go a day without telling my mother that I love her. Life is short so live it to the fullest!

Catching up

Okay so Ive been out of blog land for about a month. I have been SUPER busy over the past month. School started and having a 3rd grader and a kindergartner while playing single mom can be a little tough sometimes. Noah is enjoying 3rd grade so far this year and yesterday he got his progress report. I was proud of my man and his 3 A's and 2 B's. We are going to work on those B's and turn them into A's! Hayden is enjoying kindergarten even though he has already missed several days of school because of sickness. I was afraid of this, his first week of school he missed 2 days because of a stomach bug and last week he missed 2 days because he was in the hospital with the croup for one day out of those 2 days. Hayden has always been my sick child and I am hoping as he gets older he will out grow this. His daddy was the same way as he was growing up and when his daddy gets sick now you would think he was dying! LOL I think every man is like that though!!
Work has been a place I will call HELL right now. I work cor a Children's Clinic and flu season has hit 2 months early and it is complete chaos. We turned in out time sheets today and in the past 2 weeks I have been at that place for 94 hours and trust me my body is feeling it.
Other than school and work we haven't done much more around here. Marty has been home 3 times recently and we have had some pretty good weekends. Hayden has his first soccer game on Saturday so I will be posting some pics from that...sometime!
I had the IUD put in about a week ago and I can honestly say I cant wait to see if I don't have a period with this. Who knows how it will work but I will see.
I also want to say Thank You to my great friends. Since Marty has been gone these past 7 months I have leaned on my friends alot and I am so happy that I have great friends that are here to help me with anything! I love yall!

Test results.....

So last month I posted about possibly having a hysterectomy and that my doctor wanted to do a procedure first before we took that step. Well I went last week for my sonogram and biopsy. My doctor called me back yesterday with my results. He told me that I have Simple Hyperplasia...Ok what is that mean I ask? He tells me that I am not ovulating and that I need to take birth control for the progesterone, he also said that simple hyperplasia is the least likely to turn in cancer.. THANK YOU GOD.
Anyways he ask if I wanted a birth control called in....UMMMMMMMMM.....NO. I ha vent taken birth control in 6 years and im not one to remember to take one everyday especially when I do not need it, so I am having the IUD put in next week. I hope this works out well and takes care of my problem. I have heard great stories and HORROR stories about the IUD. I guess I will just have to wait and see what I think of it!
My husband who is still out of town called me everyday last week to see if I ahd heard from the doctor yet well when I told him today that i got the results back adn I explained what the doctor said all he could say is I dont know what any of that means but I Love You! Then he proceeds to ask if I am going to be ok! Gotta love a man that doesnt have a clue!

Wordless Wednesday...Sitting on the edge of the Lincoln Memorial

Thinking about.....

I cant believe I am going to post this but oh well I might as well because I would like some feed back on what to do. This week I went to my OBGYN for my yearly check up. Oh what fun...NOT anyways I went and we talked about something. To begin with I do not take birth control because my husband had a vasectomy done 6 years ago so I figure what is the point. I don't like trying to take a pill at the same time everyday I cant remember to do that. So I am talking with my doctor and I tell him that I have some problems with my period each month and the first thing he asks me is "Do you want a Hysterectomy?"......well yes and no I tell him. So what we have decided to do is a test and a biopsy, after the results come back we will go from there he also told me that the IUD is another option if I want it. But I keep throwing the hysterectomy question up in the air...Should I or Shouldn't I? Yes it would be WONDERFUL not having to worry about a period each month. If your wondering yes I would like to have another baby but since my husband has already had his vasectomy then we will not be having another one, so should I consider this??
Ive spoken to many people about the IUD and I have heard the ups and the downs to having that put in..especially your story Tracy!
Like I said I would love feedback on this, I go to have my test done on August 11th so it will be awhile before I make a final decision.
Thankd for your input.

Home is where....

Home is where I am at now but my heart is still in Virginia....we made it home safe and sound around 8:30. They boys and I had a wonderful time in Virginia with Marty. We went and did alot of stuff and ate alot of food! I will be posting pics later this week. I and happy that my boys got to experience this. Going to Washington D.C. is something that we probably would have never done but because NG has sent Marty to work in Virginia we got the chance to experience something new!
On Tuesday Marty and I celebrated our 8 year anniversary! We ate some WONDERFUL ALL YOU CAN EAT crablegs!! OMG they were sooooo gooood. The service at the restaurant was HORRIBLE but the food was good! Marty took me back to the CHEESECAKE FACTORY yesterday! It was wonderful too and so was my cheesecake.
We had a wonderful trip & I am glad to be home but I also would love to still be in Virginia with my hubby. When we got to Atlanta I turned on my phone and I had a voicemail...my husband was actually crying & telling me that he already missed us. That is a first....
Ill have more this week ont eh trip with some great pics!